When people decide to get a divorce, they usually don't know what to expect. Divorce is a complicated legal process, and it can be full of unpleasant surprises and frustrating delays. A general understanding of what's likely to happen can help you feel more comfortable at an uncomfortable time.
The following chronology gives a general idea of how the average divorce proceeds. Your divorce may be a little different because of differences among state laws or because of specific issues between you and your spouse. For example, arguments over where your kids will live and how to split up your 401k can make the process more complex. Your attorney can help you understand exactly how your divorce will fit with this chronology-remember, your attorney works for you, and should clearly explain every step of your divorce.
To start off the dissolution, one of the spouses gets a lawyer, who writes up a petition, a legal document that says why the spouse wants a divorce and how he or she wants to settle financial, custody, and other issues.
The lawyer files the petition with the court. The lawyer or the court makes sure that the petition is served on the other spouse, together with a summons that requires that spouse's response.
The served spouse has to answer within a certain time (usually about 30 days). The answer says whether or not the served spouse agrees with the petition. If he or she doesn't answer the petition, the court assumes that he or she agrees to its terms. The response says how the served spouse would prefer to deal with divorce decisions.
The couple exchanges documents and other information about issues such as property and income. By examining this information, the couple and the court can decide how to divide up property and how to deal with child support and spousal support (alimony).
Sometimes, the couple can voluntarily resolve all their issues regarding child custody and child visitation through mediation or settlement. California requires that parents go through this process.
If a settlement is reached, the settlement agreement is shown to a judge at an informal hearing. The judge will ask a few basic factual questions and whether each party understands and chose to sign the agreement.
If the judge approves the agreement, he or she gives the couple a divorce decree that shows what they agreed to. If he or she does not approve it, or if the couple does not reach an agreement, the case will go to trial.
At trial, the attorneys present evidence and arguments for each side, and the judge decides the unresolved issues, including child custody and visitation, child and spousal support, and property division. Once the judge has reached his or her decision, the judge grants the divorce.
Either or both spouses can appeal a judges decision to a higher court. But it's unusual for an appeals court to overturn a judge's decision. Also, remember that settlements usually cannot be appealed if both spouses agree to their terms.
It's hard to say how long all these steps will take in your case. The entire process can take from as little as a few months, to as long as several years. Generally speaking, the more the couple can cooperate and agree to reasonable compromises, the smoother and faster the divorce will go.
This limited information IS NOT intended to serve as a substitute for consultation with an attorney. Specific legal issues, concerns and conditions always require the advice of appropriate legal professionals.
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